Archive for June, 2010

Squishy 3


2010
06.19

I’m having to be sneaky writing this post as Hubby is right next to me, & these photos contain clues about his Father’s Day cards…but I don’t think he reads my blog much, so hopefully I’ll be okay!!

I love my big brother

I've been painting!

For the record – Crayola washable paints? Only washable in the sense that you can get rid of all traces of paint except the colour if you wash the foot immediately…hopefully the colour will fade…I’ve had to keep her feet hidden all day so DH wouldn’t ask why she had funny coloured feet!

One of her favourite things is to blow bubbles and chat away to us…she gets so loud at times! Definitely likes the sound of her own voice!

Squishy 2


2010
06.19

Only my second daily photo post & I’m a day late…these are Friday’s photos!

She still seems a bit too tiny for the bumbo

Quality time with her friend Flora (Twink's birth day gift to her)

Green Butterfly Cakes!


2010
06.17

Today we have been celebrating Hubby’s birthday. His actual birthday was a week ago, but we were in Lewis and I’d forgotten his birthday card, his present hadn’t arrived, and I couldn’t be bothered to bake on holiday. So his fake birthday was today! And we celebrated with these:

There were more, but they were either badly iced, or already eaten by the time I took this photo! The star shaped one was made with some old star shaped cup cake tins that my mum has had forever. As we are trying to de-junk (very slowly), I thought I’d better give them the chance to prove their worth. I made 3 which I squidged a muffin case into to line, and for another 3 I just buttered & floured the tins. The ones with the muffin case were sad little not quite star shaped cupcakes, while the others just took a little work to get out of the tin. Definitely think I’ll be using them again…although I’m not sure I’ll stick them through the dishwasher again…not sure what metal they’re made of, but I’m not convinced they won’t rust!

Speedy Pasta Dinner


2010
06.17

I managed to cook dinner last night. That is quite a rare thing in this house. Although I do love cooking, I have a fantabulous husband who comes home from work early to cook for us (he works for himself, so then continues working after the children are in bed)…so I generally don’t bother. However, yesterday was a No Nap Day for Twink which usually means he crashes early evening. So I wanted dinner done and dusted as early as possible. I raided our sorry looking fridge and came up with this. It was yummy, and I think hubby was quite pleased to come home to find dinner made for him.

Ingredients:

  • Pasta – enough for all of you…in my case it was the ends of 4 different packets so we had farfalle, fusilli, rigatoni & penne!
  • Garlic boursin – or cream cheese of your choice – I would get philly or supermarket own version of, but I like the garlic & herb ones and it annoys me that they only do them in low fat versions. (while I would benefit from low fat, it’s not so good for small people like Twink)
  • Leeks – chopped into strips – god knows how long these had been in the fridge…eeek!
  • Mushrooms – chopped into cubes – the end of a packet again…also have been in the fridge longer than they ought (can you tell our veg box hasn’t been delivered since before our holiday & we’re too lazy to go to Sainsburys?!)
  • Bacon (I had a packet of pancetta cubes)
  • Frozen sweetcorn
  • Butter/oil for frying (I prefer the taste of mushrooms & sweetcorn in butter, but usually add a dash of oil so the butter doesn’t burn)

What to do:

  • Put pasta on to boil.
  • In a large frying pan melt butter & throw leeks, mushrooms & bacon in. Stir half heartedly while trying to placate toddler.
  • Stir the cream cheese into the contents of the frying pan about 3 minutes before the pasta is ready. You can use as much or as little as you want, today I used 3/4 of the boursin in the frying pan, then added the rest to the pasta once I’d drained it. Keep stirring to melt the cheese, so it becomes like a sauce.
  • 1 minute before the pasta will be ready, add the frozen sweetcorn to the pan of water.
  • Drain pasta/sweetcorn mix, put in bowls and top with veg mix
  • Scoff quickly & get toddler in bed, asleep, by six. Result!

Disclaimer: Author makes no promises that eating the aforementioned pasta dish will result in your toddler going to sleep by six. Sorry about that ;-)

Squishy


2010
06.17

I’ve recently upgraded my laptop from a second hand Acer to a second hand MacBook Pro (there’s a second hand theme here…). So I’ve been transferring all my photos and have been amazed at how many thousands of pictures of Twink I have….and saddened at how few of Squishy I have. This may be second child syndrome, but only by default I think…every time Twink sees my camera he wants to play with it (a.k.a take close up photos of his own eyes) so I can’t use it as frequently as I did with him. In fact, I take the easy way and rarely use it at all if he’s around. It also ran off AA batteries, which lasted about 5 minutes, so every time I picked it up I had to replace them.

Anyway, I got a new camera for my birthday from my dad who was shocked at the poor picture quality of my old camera (I tried to explain that I’m just not a good photographer…I just don’t have steady hands!). So I’m  setting myself a challenge. I have to take a photo (with a camera, not a phone) of Squishy every day. I may not be able to post it every day as…well I get busy sometimes! But I have to take a new picture each day. I’d like to do that until she is at least 6 months (7th August)…although then we’re getting into the messy photo op fun that is baby led weaning, so I might continue.

Here are today’s pictures. They were taken in bed as she was looking so adorable despite having kept me awake all night…she doesn’t look tired though!

As you can see from the black and white shot, I will also be playing around with the editing stuff in iphoto…lots of fun to be had! So far I’m finding it much easier than photoshop. Sorry if any of these shots are blurry…I’ll check back later, but my glasses are on the bed next to Squishy, and now she’s asleep I am NOT risking waking her! Besides…I’m not very blind ;-)

I’m glad I’ve started this…was feeling a little guilty for having so few photos of her…especially as I love the whole newborn stage!

Highlights from Lewis – Part 2


2010
06.15

We were based in the tiny village of Tolsta Chaolais which isn’t pronounced anything like you’d think it would be – it’s more like Tolssa Hurlish, except the ‘H’ of Hurlish is one of those back of the throat type sounds. And that spelling is the English version…Gaelic is a really unusual language! It’s my dad’s first language, but I only speak a handful of phrases, and my pronunciation is pretty awful according to Dad. Squishy’s name is the Gaelic version of a fairly common name, and as such is not so much uncommon as unheard of down here in the South of England. Being able to tell people her name and have them accept it as easily as if it were Jane or Lucy was one of the unexpected highlights of the trip. Just today I went to another baby group where someone immediately repeated her name back as the English version…which obviously I had to correct. On Lewis, if people commented at all, it was to tell me that some member of their family have the same name. Her name means quite a lot to me as my mum suggested it four and a half years ago when she was ill in hospital, & she died shortly afterwards. I love the fact that she has a connection with her granny even though she can never meet her.

Sunday started badly – I’d hung some nappies out to dry the night before, completely forgetting that you can’t have laundry hanging out on a Sunday for religious reasons. So instead we lit a lovely peat fire and draped the nappies over chairs and footstools to dry. We then managed to find a petrol station shop that was open for two hours on a Sunday so we could buy some milk and bread! It really is a whole other world up there, and the Sunday rules underlined that. We’re so used to everything being available almost 24:7, so the idea that we weren’t allowed to do certain things on a certain day was very strange for us.

On Monday we visited Garenin which is the village my grandad was born in. It’s now a tourist site as all the houses are traditional black houses. It’s right by the sea, although we couldn’t go down to the beach as a seal had died there and was smelling awful…still, we had a bit of a wander, & my dad had a go on the loom making some Harris tweed (something he did a lot when he was younger apparently). Twink found that hilarious…I just found it noisy!

Tuesday we went to Melbost Borve which is the village my dad is from. I say village, but it’s even smaller than Tolsta Chaolais! Ten houses, maybe fifteen at the most. This was my granny’s house. Dad helped build it when he was 12, having been born in a black house in the field opposite. I have lots of happy memories of this little house.

Where's he taking me now...

This is my granny’s old chicken house…I can remember it hanging off the cliff 15 years ago, so I was a bit surprised it was still there. However the floor has fallen out since I saw it last 4 years ago. Oh & I’m not an odd lumpy shape – there’s a baby under my sweater! It was exceptionally windy, and she was sleeping so I’d tucked her away.

There are some really beautiful beaches on the island. On Wednesday we visited Uig beach (not the same Uig as in the first highlights post…there are a few of them around!) which is huge when the tide is out – we only made it half way before the gale drove us back (I may be exaggerating, but it was very windy and I am still washing wind blown sand out of my hair!).

There was important shell collecting work to be done.

Rocks to climb.

Ponds to examine.

And Daddies to wear out.

Thursday was Hubby’s birthday, and we visited  Borgh Pottery (pronounced Borve) to buy him a mug to compliment (but not match) the one we bought for me 4 years ago. While there we also bought a bag made of patchwork Harris tweed for me to use as a change bag, and a toy Oskar & Ellen Doctor’s bag for Ethan as he wouldn’t let go of it! The hand written label which came with my bag, had the name of the lovely lady who made the bag along with her mobile number…for all those bag related emergencies I imagine!

My parents (whose house we live in as I inherited it, and which is still full of their stuff) have collected lots of Borgh pottery pieces, so it’s lucky we both like the style! I particularly like the mugs – they’re chunky and sturdy feeling, the handle has a thumb rest at the top which is perfect for the way Hubby holds his cup (by the handle), and they’re concave which is perfect for how I hold a mug (backwards with my hand round the body of the mug and the handle opposite me). Now we have one each!

Friday was our last day, and we visited the Callanish Stones. Twink loved racing around and helping to prop up the stones!

We finished our holiday and headed for the ferry at 2pm on Friday. The ferry arrived in Uig in Skye just before 6pm. We decided to risk driving through the night and just headed straight home. It was definitely the right thing to do – we stopped for a bedtime stop about 8pm as both children were awake, and after that, they pretty much slept the whole journey. They both woke up briefly around midnight as we stopped for a while, but they went back to sleep quickly. At 3ish (yep, that’d be a.m.!) Twink woke up and couldn’t get back to sleep. From 4 to 4.30 was the worst bit – he just screamed as he was so frustrated and tired. But then he fell asleep, so when we arrived home at 5.15am he was happy to be transferred to his bed and stay there until 11!

We’ve just about recovered now – everyone’s sleep is more or less back to normal, and we’re eating at sensible times again. The first few days we didn’t want breakfast until lunchtime and it just throws the whole day off!

Highlights from Lewis – Part 1


2010
06.14

I haven’t just been ignoring this blog, I’ve been away having fun and adventures. Some good…some not so good (as you may have noticed if you follow me on twitter!). We survived. We even enjoyed parts of it! I could write a zillion blogs on everything that happened, but for now at least, I’ll restrain myself and just give you the highlights. In fact, just the highlights of the drive up as I seem to have got a bit carried away!

To get to the Isle of Lewis we drove all the way up to Uig on the Isle of Skye. That’s about 570 miles. With a toddler and a baby. A baby who doesn’t like cars. Then we took a ferry to Harris & after driving for another hour we arrived at our destination, a small village (they’re all small villages on the island!) called Tolsta Chaolais. As it was such a long way, and we have a petrol guzzling, 5.5 litre beast of a car, we were borrowing our friend’s diesel Golf. Very practical, but slightly smaller boot!

We packed up the car and, having decided to leave at night, we got the children out of bed and into the car. It was midnight by this point, and we’d just made our first mistake. Twink did not react well to being taken out of bed. Sure, at first it was fun and games, but he didn’t go back to sleep. When he did start dozing, he’d wake himself up and scream. It sounded like he was scared, maybe by the flashing streetlights. By 3.30am, we’d had enough and found a travelodge to sleep in. Except Twink didn’t want to sleep. I think we managed about 2 or 3 hours in the end, before heading down for breakfast. Squishy had been absolutely perfect throughout this. Usually she screams constantly in the car, but it seems that she doesn’t mind it at night if she’s asleep.

Drumlanrig Castle

It didn’t take long until Hubby & I were getting drowsy again, so I just took the next turning and we figured we’d find somewhere we could stop, stretch our legs and eat lunch. Did we ever! Along windy roads we found Drumlanrig Castle. As well as a lovely tearoom, this castle has a fantastic adventure playground. You wouldn’t believe the things Twink did, or the heights he scaled! With sandpits, slides (including a really tall one!), zip wires and a climbing wall, I really would recommend a stop here.

Climbing up the wall!...well, holding on!

Up so high

Eeek!

Fearless

Phew. That’s a lot of photos! We had an AMAZING time there. Twink absolutely didn’t want to leave. We stopped for much longer than we expected, resulting in us not arriving at the B & B in Uig till past eleven at night. The ferry trip the following morning was Twink’s first boat, and he loved it! Racing around pointing at everything, climbing all the ridiculously steep stairs and smiling at everyone (even if they did think he was a girl!). We arrived at Tolsta Chaolais by lunch…utterly exhausted!

10 Things That Make Me Feel Happy – A Meme


2010
06.03

I’ve been procrastinating about this post for a while (yeah, I know, I do that a lot!). When I started this blog I was in a pretty good place, loving life with two small children and excited about the future, and when Mellow Mummy tagged me in this meme I thought it’d be fun. Unfortunately I put it off too long, and I’ve really struggled the last couple of weeks. Nothing particular, just on a down swing of one of my usual ups and downs. I’m not going to say anything as cliched as ‘I’ve always battled with depression’ as I don’t believe I have ever battled with it. I’ve just always accepted that it’s part of me. Usually I’ve dealt with a down swing by leaving something (a man, a job…occasionally the country!). Well, I’m not about to leave Hubby, I don’t have a real job (technically I’m self employed, but in a very definite work avoidance stage!), and leaving the country spontaneously isn’t practical with two little ones and a husband who never stops working. So I’m a bit stuck and have spent a fair few days having meltdowns lately.

Not the most obvious time to sit down and blog about happy things…

But I do love a challenge, so I’m going to give it a go! I may adjust some of them from things that make me happy to times I have been happy…but we’ll see how it goes. It’s my first meme, so I’ll just do my best.

Are you ready? You probably need cheering up after that first paragraph, eh?!

  1. I’ll start with the obvious – Twink and Squishy. My little boy is such a caring, loving, happy little boy, that I can’t be sad around him for long. Squishy might be small, but she is such a talkative, giggly little girl. Already she loves nothing more than having a long chat with her mum.
  2. My Husband. I am so unbelievably lucky to have someone who can put up with all my madness, and on top of that, I am extremely proud of everything he’s achieved. Less than three years ago he was working 9 to 5 for a bank. Now he runs his own company in a completely unrelated field which he has taught himself. He’s brilliant. And he makes me tea and flapjacks, even when I’ve been miserable all day.
  3. Driving in my car (a little too fast) with the radio turned high. Not something I can do that often with the children, but on sunny days like today, I do turn the radio on a little louder than usual and put my foot down a bit ;-) Today Twink & I were bopping along to Garbage and racing a Bentley…never fails to make me smile!
  4. An old one now – the last car that was mine all mine (we currently share) was a Toyota MR2 Roadster. As I opened the garage each morning and saw it sitting there I had such a big grin on my face, even after three years! That car was one of the first things Hubby & I did together – we’d been seeing each other for 3 weeks when we got a bit bored and I confessed my love of roadsters. We were working in the motor trade & Hubby was in sales, so he found me one! Silver with red leather. At the slightest hint of sunshine, no matter how cold, I would throw the roof down. Somehow I still managed to drive it at 38 weeks pregnant with Twink (getting in was accomplished by falling in backwards) which is when I admitted defeat and sold it. I miss it every time the sun shines.
  5. Going out without the children. Or doing anything without them actually! That sounds awful I know, but I do have a fantastic babysitter (their second mum), and what I really mean is that feeling of doing something a bit naughty. Like when you were a teenager and your parents went out leaving you with the house to yourself. Sure, maybe all you did was stay up late watching scary films and listening to all the music they didn’t approve of, but you were getting away with something. Hubby & I now get that feeling when we do anything without the children. We miss them…we talk about them…but that sneaking around behind their backs feeling is kinda good!
  6. Making things. There is something really satisfying about finishing something crafty. You really feel like you’ve achieved something when you’ve made something practical like a pair of trousers for Twink or a mei tai for carrying Squishy…need to get something finished soon…might help cheer me up!
  7. The smell of chamomile tea. We drank tonnes of the stuff when we were on our honeymoon in the Maldives. It was an absolutely amazing, fantastic holiday, with lots of time spent in the spa, eating fantastic food, lying on the beach, drinking cosmopolitans…and the smell of chamomile tea brings it all back (as does the smell of cosmopolitans, but that makes me sound like an alcoholic!).
  8. My wedding photos. My wedding day was amazing. I had the dress of my dreams, the sparkliest Jimmy Choos hidden underneath it, and all I did from the moment the ceremony was over was smile and kiss my new husband. Looking at the photos reminds me of all those little moments that made the whole day so memorable.
  9. Nice wine. Even better if it’s accompanied by some fantastic michelin starred food!
  10. Going to the spa with my best friend. Lots of chats in the sauna and hydrotherapy pool, a facial or a massage, a nice meal, and a glass of wine. What’s not to love?

Right, now for the bit that I’m really not sure about…tagging other people. Not sure of the protocol here, so please forgive me if I screw up. First off I’ll tag Skip at Skippedydoodah as she’s lovely and if I’ve done this the wrong way, she probably won’t aim any missiles at my head. Secondly I’ll tag The Heartful Blogger just because she recently drew a beautiful lotus and I wish I could draw anything more complicated than a stick man.

Boxing People


2010
06.02

Putting people in boxes that is. I hate it. It really drives me up the wall. I’ve been thinking about it a lot lately as when I tell people I am still breastfeeding Twink at 2 years old, even though he has a 4 month old baby sister, I can literally see them glancing at the other ‘alternative’ things I do and sticking me in a box. It’s worst at swimming lessons at the moment, probably because they’re new lessons for me and Squishy, so we don’t know anyone. First the question: ‘How long did you feed Twink for?’ I reply with ‘I’m still feeding him.’ And there’s the pause.

Then the comments.

‘Oh wow. Supermum.’ [er...why??? I'm really not...particularly on days like today]

And their eyes flicked from the cloth nappy, to the sling and back up to where I was by now feeding Squishy. Yep. That was the moment they stuck me in a box. You know, the one labelled ‘different from me’.

All my parenting decisions have been for the best for my family. I would never in a million years tell anyone else that my way is the right way. It’s only the right way for me. I would hate anyone to think I judged them in that way. Nobody (or at least no one I know!!!) tries to parent badly – we’re all just trying to do our best.

I didn’t choose to be different just to be different, or because of any ideology. Cloth nappies work out cheaper and I’ve always had more leaks with disposables…so for my family cloth is best…it’s definitely not for environmental reasons (although I do like the environment, obviously…it’s all green and pretty! I’m just no selfless eco-warrior). When I see people getting that look in their eyes, I just want to scream: ‘I drive a fast car. I aspire to luxury holidays in spa hotels (& have loved the ones I’ve had). I love my Jimmy Choos and somehow, I WILL fit into my Dolce & Gabbana jeans again (it may take liposuction!…or the removal of my legs)’. If I’m honest, I am unashamedly consumerist….although admittedly I am sitting here in an outfit by George at Asda and odd socks!

That said, I’m not particularly bothered that people do consider me different. It only bothers me that they don’t seem to want to get to know me further because of those differences.

I guess I won’t be making many friends at the swimming class…


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